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Dating During Divorce

by Gamino Law Offices on 07/08/14

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 - Attorney Carlos Gamino

While you’re getting divorced, you might be tempted to get out there and test the waters. Maybe it’s been a while since you were on the dating scene; perhaps you’re looking for a quick way to get over what’s going on with your marriage.

Take it from a group of Milwaukee divorce attorneys: don’t.

Dating During Divorce: A Recipe for Trouble

If you’re working with a Milwaukee divorce lawyer, chances are pretty good that he or she has already told you not to get involved with someone before your divorce is final. But why?

The simple truth is that not all divorces are amicable. Even those where both parties get along well experience problems when one partner starts dating again.

As much as we don’t like to admit it, it’s hurtful when your partner dives back into the dating pool – and that can throw a huge wrench in negotiations over child custody and property division. It can even spell trouble in your alimony case. Often, the other party reacts based on their feelings and shuts down; that can result in you spending more in legal fees as you fight things out in court or even losing out on spousal maintenance that you rightfully deserve.

Is Dating During Divorce Really That Bad?

Most people who have been through the process, as well as most attorneys, will tell you that dating during divorce is a bad idea. It’s not just about your ex, either.

If you have children, you have to think about the possible consequences for them. Divorce is confusing for kids, and when Mom or Dad starts dating someone else right away, things get even more confusing.

It’s not fair to your new flame, either. After a divorce, you need time to get to know yourself again and feel comfortable with the “new” you. You won’t be able to devote yourself to a new relationship before you take that personal step – and you could leave a trail of broken hearts in your wake if you try dating during divorce.

If you’re not sure about whether you should be dating during divorce, talk to your attorney. He or she will be able to give you expert guidance and advice.

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