A Close Relationship with Your In-Laws during Divorceby Gamino Law Offices on 05/15/14
Many people who have close relationships with their in-laws face difficult decisions during divorce. Is it okay to keep in touch with them, or even maintain the same relationships you had before the divorce?
It’s completely normal to maintain a relationship with your in-laws, especially if you have children. As long as everyone involved is comfortable, it’s okay to keep up relationships even if you don’t have kids.
That said, not all splits are friendly ones. If members of your ex’s family try to interfere with your divorce or your relationship with your children, let your Milwaukee divorce lawyer know right away.
It’s Okay to Ask
During a divorce, you’re never sure where you stand. Your in-laws might not be sure, either, so it’s okay to ask them how you’re supposed to act toward each other. Before you do that, though, make sure your ex is okay with it; it’s not because you care whether he or she is uncomfortable, but because you care about his or her family.
If you do reach out to your ex in-laws, prepare yourself for the fact that they might not be comfortable with continuing your relationship. Many parents feel like they’re being disloyal to their own child by maintaining a good relationship with his or her ex, so your divorce may be the end of your contact with them.
Keeping the Relationships Alive for the Kids
If you have kids, you’ll probably still need to keep in touch with your ex’s family after your divorce. In order to foster healthy, loving relationships, you’ll need to keep the peace with them if you don’t particularly get along.
Remember, your former in-laws may be angry with you over the divorce. However, letting them know that you and your kids value the connections you share goes a long way to smooth things over.
When to Contact Your Milwaukee Divorce Lawyer
You don’t have to maintain contact with your ex in-laws if you don’t want to, but if they harass you or cause problems for your children, it’s time to call your Milwaukee divorce lawyer. If they interfere with visitation, involve your kids in the intricacies of your divorce, or otherwise make things harder on them (or you, for that matter), tell your attorney; he or she might be able to take legal action that saves your kids from the emotional fallout.